tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2992111588558566834.post5327186319663450376..comments2023-03-25T08:09:44.433-06:00Comments on MindGarden: Well, that was funMtnMamahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08486102684101822999noreply@blogger.comBlogger8125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2992111588558566834.post-86849276166010458722009-11-02T18:01:30.419-07:002009-11-02T18:01:30.419-07:00What everyone else said... you did the right thing...What everyone else said... you did the right thing and showed more gumption than I might've. And yes, you got laid, which is rarely a bad thing, and had some fun, too. Luckily you didn't date him so long that M got attached to him. That always makes it harder.Cary McNealhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16991174129999010729noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2992111588558566834.post-49975729473661818992009-10-29T17:24:09.742-06:002009-10-29T17:24:09.742-06:00Well, as usual, I'm late to the comment party ...Well, as usual, I'm late to the comment party lol And, everything I was gonna say has already been said! Good for you for going to the party anyway. "Looking good is the best revenge" :) If he can't get over his ex, you don't need him around anyway..nothing good will come from that.onebadmamajamahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02958191250508889822noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2992111588558566834.post-46301628721213280952009-10-27T20:27:13.384-06:002009-10-27T20:27:13.384-06:00I love you all. Thanks for being so encouraging a...I love you all. Thanks for being so encouraging and compassionate. My life has definitely been one hell of a ride. I never want to be the kind of person who is so self-protective that I never risk disappointment - in love, in work, in friendships, in adventure of any kind. One thing about me is that you know where you stand with me, and I appreciate all of my friends so, so much.MtnMamahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08486102684101822999noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2992111588558566834.post-57249391606586171672009-10-27T08:18:34.201-06:002009-10-27T08:18:34.201-06:00I'm sorry for this... but you are certainly su...I'm sorry for this... but you are certainly such a strong lady for going to the party. I hate the preemptive dump... if you don't want to hurt me, why are you hurting me? <br /><br />I like your last comment, the man got you through a dry spell anyway. Some people come into our lives for a reason, and some for only a season. I think each relationship teaches us something, even when it feels like it's at our own expense.<br /><br />Take care, birthday sister, and keep your chin up! :-DAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2992111588558566834.post-34078335169388149692009-10-27T05:30:48.054-06:002009-10-27T05:30:48.054-06:00well hell. Sorry it didn't last longer, but at...well hell. Sorry it didn't last longer, but at least he was honest with you...still sucks, but it could have been worse.<br />I was once on the verge of dumping a guy when he preemptively dumped me...I was so pissed I was almost blinded with it! I mean, I would have married the guy to prove to him how great I was (just kidding)...and while I think I've got it together, you're a better person than I for attending the party. <br />You're the best!Maryhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01915937002599448896noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2992111588558566834.post-67153311590560180582009-10-26T19:29:32.494-06:002009-10-26T19:29:32.494-06:00Oh, gosh darnit! This just sucks! Congrats on goin...Oh, gosh darnit! This just sucks! Congrats on going to the party and holding your head up high, you're a bigger woman than I am!<br /><br />From what you had said, at least you had a "well this might not last, but I'll enjoy it while it does" attitude. And like Bev said, at least you got some. Because that's really the most important thing. ;) His loss, for sure.Samsmamahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11169303081015977579noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2992111588558566834.post-14592006066672862012009-10-26T18:34:08.511-06:002009-10-26T18:34:08.511-06:00I'm sorry that it didn't work out, but at ...I'm sorry that it didn't work out, but at least it sounds like they were all good times, and no long drawn-out period of unpleasantness.<br /><br />I was dumped by a woman because I had, at one time, said that I didn't believe in dating for dating's sake (i.e. not dating someone if there was something about her that made her, in my eyes, un-marryable (I don't feel that way, anymore)), and, I guess, she had determined me to be un-marryable.<br /><br />I was still invited to her daughter's 3 year-old bday party, though, so I went. After I got there, she found her two best friends huddled in her kitchen. When asked why they weren't outside with everyone else, they said, "But Frank's here!"<br /><br />heh.<br /><br />I spent most of the party playing with the kids on the bouncy thing. I thought I had broken her son's arm at one point, but, luckily, I had not. I had a good time.Frank Irwinhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09810371882645999798noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2992111588558566834.post-63574781103864753392009-10-26T18:20:30.299-06:002009-10-26T18:20:30.299-06:00Oh maaaaaan. I'm so sorry, MtnMama. :( You ...Oh maaaaaan. I'm so sorry, MtnMama. :( You are such a grown-up for putting your feelings aside and going to the party for the sake of your kiddo. I admire you for that. ((hugs))<br /><br />Phooey. Oh well, you're right -- at least you got some action and now you'll be primed and ready for the next, better Mr. Right.Bevhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18275839554554036296noreply@blogger.com